Seated across us in his Chinatown flat on a Saturday morning, the 32-year-old opens up about his experiences here as he sips a glass of chardonnay. “[At one of my job interviews, there were two chefs (applying to do) the same thing, and I had to sit down and listen to someone say, Oh, I can’t market you, but I can market the other one," he shares.
"That person basically just told me that because of my background, and how I look, that they couldn’t market me. That was the hardest thing.”
Ironically, becoming a chef was never his childhood dream. In fact, he was adamant about not following in the footsteps of his father, who used to run a restaurant before starting a catering business from home.
“In Sri Lanka, Western food meant McDonald’s and Pizza Hut for me. I never thought I would like chicken liver, but I tasted this, and I thought, this is really good!"
“Ever since reading The Perfectionist (by Rudolph Chelminski), I wanted (a Michelin star); I really wanted it. It still feels like a dream," says Naleendra. He laughs as he recalls how he couldn't believe it was real when he first received his invitation to the star awards gala held at The Fullerton Hotel this year.
“I would wake up at 6.30am and keep asking (his wife) Manuela: ‘Do you think we are really going to get a star? How sure are you we’ll get one?’ After two days, she got fed up and told me she wanted to sleep,” he says with a chuckle. “So, I would come out of the room, lie on the couch and play a record (on his vinyl player). And I would wait until she woke up so I could ask her to check that e-mail again.”
But getting to where he is today hasn't been easy.
The long hours. The lack of sleep. The constant inability to switch off even outside the kitchen. For someone who “has slaved (himself) since (he) was 18 to get somewhere”, Naleendra has had his fair share of hard knocks.
The first was when his shoulder muscles gave out while he was working at Tetsuya’s. “I had pins and needles in my arms for days. Then, my muscles got blocked and I couldn’t move my arm during service. I got really scared.”
“I didn’t start being this obsessed with being a chef, just to end up being average.”
“People looked at me really funny. It was hard, but it also made me want (to succeed) more, for sure,” he says. “And I have learnt how not to react to things. Everyone has a bad day. You move on.”
Cheek by Jowl is where everything comes together. In the kitchen, staff take part in deboning competitions where they race to see who can shuck oysters and debone quails fastest. On the menu, dishes spun from his imagination take flight in delicious combinations such as roasted quail with mint and mushrooms, and smoked fatty mackerel dusted with a crusted bone crumb on a smear of tangy horseradish cream.
“There’s nothing, if not for her. She is everything.”