Finding the ideal setting for a first date is akin to solving the Goldilocks conundrum. You want something nice but not too fancy—because sitting through a three-hour tasting menu could be a deal breaker. You also don’t want to go too casual (read: cheap). A lively, buzzy spot will help ease the first date jitters, but it can’t be too loud that you can’t hear each other. The food should be innovative but not so new-fangled that you're stumped on what to order. Fortunately, there are certain restaurants that set the right tone.
King, the bright and cheerful restaurant located in a West Village townhouse, features a simple menu with just a handful of dishes every night. This makes ordering seamless so you can focus on the date instead of deciphering complicated ingredients. The room is airy with only a handful of tables that are decorated with bud vases and cellars of salt and pepper. There is also an excellent selection of wines by the glass. You’ll feel like you are having a leisurely meal in Italy or France—and it doesn’t get more romantic than that.
The stylish SoHo restaurant Altro Paradiso offers several private corner booths and soft, amber lighting that casts a flattering glow on the always fashionable crowd. Chef/owner Ignacio Mattos serves simple, flavorful fare that pleases the fussiest of diners.
In Brooklyn’s Cobble Hill neighborhood, Saint Julivert Fisherie offers up a warm, inviting ambience and plenty of small, shareable plates. Wash down spicy peanuts and stuffed olives with a glass of sherry as you break the ice, and if it’s going well, you can continue with dishes like grilled shrimp and shiso tacos with scallops. You might get to see husband and wife owners Alex Raj and Eder Montero in action and be inspired by their successful relationship, so save room for dessert.
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